It’s frustrating to feel constantly challenged on something that shouldn’t matter to anyone but me.People aren’t going to ask me why I date men, so why should they ask me why I date ?Non-Asian guys usually take a step back, take a good look at me, and, with the little wheels in their heads slowly chugging away, they find the only feasible sentence worth saying is, simply: To which I cheerfully reply, “Nope. I just hate ugly faces.” Watching them walk away with those faces contorted with puzzlement is so amusing, but that’s only if they leave at that moment. “Well…what do Asian guys have that make them so special? You’re too young to say what you do and don’t like…” etc.They’re either completely confused and/or jealous as to why an attractive white woman like myself (if I might be conceited enough to say) likes only Asian men.Maintaining that cohesion through a lengthy and complicated design process is one of the hardest things to pull off as a group of developers.It’s not unsimilar to a band travelling across the country in a small tour bus, and has a similar effect of wanting to abandon your fellows at rather unsavory truck stops.The answer is the same to both questions: because that’s what I’m attracted to. On the other hand, when Asian men hear about my preference, one of two things happens. I get reprimanded for some purely sexual fetish and how I’m a White Female so I’m supposed to like White guys too, and how can I dislike my White counterpart?
Last week we talked about mechanics, the building blocks of a game, and introduced our art style.
Internalized racism is cultivated over a lifetime of people telling you you're not enough as you are.
Those two cosmetic fixes are extreme, yet popular solutions to that chronic uneasiness.
” and, “What do I say in text to create attraction? Rules like; always end the text on a high note, and never be the last to text.
– She doesn’t know you– She’s with a guy she’s dating at the moment– She’s on her period– She’s having a fat day– You said something she considers “Creepy.”– She lost her phone– She’s not attracted to you– She’s busy– She’s at work– She’s having sex with an alien from one of the moons around Mars Here’s what you do. If she doesn’t reply within a few days, you text her again.