If I was being honest with the title of this post, I probably would have called it something like “How to write a good first message according to what Single Steve thinks is a good first message, but I’m not really sure you should take my advice because I rarely get responses to my messages”.
So, as you can see, it doesn’t really have the same ring, or appeal to someone searching on how to write a good first message for online dating.
I quadrupled the number of women writing back to me and cut my work in half.
This has been Elliott Gordon of Authentic Online Dating Tips For Men.
I have been dating a man for about 5 months and everything is pretty good.
He was married for 10 years and has been divorced for about 2. We go out often, I’ve been introduced to the family and he to mine, and he treats me like I’m his girlfriend.
Okay, I’m just going to admit it, and come out and say it.
The first thing you read in the post was a bold face lie.
Then, he back peddled and said he prays daily for god to release some of the things in his life.It’s actually slightly enraging to read some of these messages that these guys are sending to some of my female friends, only because all I can think is “HOW THIS IS MY COMPETITION!? Especially when I receive screen shots of first messages like the one below : I can’t even. That, somehow they are “beating the system” and not really having to do any work, other than craft a single super generic message and send it out dozens of times.Because if they actually thought that the women they were sending the messages to knew that these were generic messages, they wouldn’t be sending them right? in cart., cm 34x26, pp 6 di testo, 15 tavv a colori appl. 12 fullpage tipped-in plates and 3 text illustrations all in color.