While a girl could get me to put in more effort by withdrawing a bit, I am ultimately not looking for a relationship and my effort is only going to go so far. I’ve been successfully manipulated into relationships too.
In the end, they’ve failed because I knew in my mind, heart and gut that it wasn’t what I wanted and as much as I tried to numb myself into wanting the relationship, I couldn’t kid myself.
My point in all of this is that if you withdraw, you will most likely get him to put in more effort, but that will only take you so far.
Ultimately, if you want a relationship to be as you want it to be, you need to be true to what you really want.
So, if the guy on your mind is giving you these signals, and you have feelings for him too, what are you waiting for?
When a guy loves you (or is on his way to falling in love with you) the relationship starts with a lot of enthusiasm on his part. He’s excited to be around you, to share things with you, and to bring you into his world.What I mean is that I like them right where they are…I know she’s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we’re together it’s nice, but there’s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more “official”.It can be really confusing (and at times just plain annoying) to tell if a guy likes you or not.One moment he treats you like a princess, the next moment he pretends you don't even exist. The smile on your face lets me know that you need me There's a truth in your eyes sayin' you'll never leave me The touch of your hand says you'll catch me if ever I fall You say it best when you say nothing at all ... While some guys are forthright and may easily admit that they like a girl, some guys keep their feelings to themselves for quite some time before they make them known.